DON’T FORGET ABOUT THE MARRIAGE
June
is traditionally wedding month. Thousands
of couples will go through the ritual of engagement, wedding, and reception to
visualize to the world that they have joined together as one. But what about the marriage? In most instances couples marry because they
have decided to love, respect and commit to each other for as long as they both
shall live. But somehow that tends to
get lost among the over-the-top proposals, the extravagant weddings, and the
lavish receptions. These celebratory
events have their place, but have very little to do with a successful marriage.
I believe couples
should spend as much time, or more, planning
the marriage as they do planning a wedding.
Long before a wedding proposal is given, there should be real discussion
about what the marriage means to each partner.
Before a vow is repeated, there should be a clear understanding about
what each person expects from the marriage, and is willing to give. Before the cake is cut, couples should address
how they will traverse the push and pulls, and ups and downs that the marriage
will produce. It seems as though some couples
think the marriage doesn’t start until after the honeymoon, but the foundation
for a successful marriage begins with open, honest communication long before a
wedding is even contemplated,
Proposals, weddings,
and receptions are but a passing fancy, but marriage is forever. Enjoy the pomp and circumstances, but don’t
forget about the marriage.
Before
you say, “I do” you’ve got to watch “The Marriage Contract”
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